How to get what you want in the bedroom

Do you feel that you have not got what you need and want in the bedroom? You would not be the only man or woman in the world to feel like that. I meet men every day during my work at London escorts who feel that they are not getting as much out of their sex life as they would like. The same is true for many women.

Even some girls at London escorts do not feel that their lover is hitting the spot, and I daresay plenty of ladies would join in with them. We all feel a little bit let down by our partner at times, and I have been in the same situation myself. Last year I met this guy who seemed very sexy but when it came to shagging your brains out, he was hopeless. It was frustrating, and I kept complaining to my closest girlfriends at charlotte London escorts. One of the senior escorts who has been with our London escorts service for a long time, told me to talk to my boyfriend about it. Did he actually enjoy sex? It is easy to assume we all enjoy sex. I thought that enjoying sex came natural to most people, but some people don’t see it that way. So far I have not met a man at London escorts who do not seem to enjoy sex, but a couple of the more senior girls have.

Why do not some people enjoy sex? For instance, they may have had a negative sexual experience, or not be confident enough. Letting go is a problem for many of us, and I am guilty of that as well. Unless I feel totally comfortable with the person, I find it hard to enjoy sex. How do you talk about sex without hurting someone’s feelings? During my time with charlotte London escorts, I have learned that the best way to deal with the situation, is just to come out and ask. The rest of the girls at London escorts seem to have the same approach. That is exactly what I did with my boyfriend when things were not working out.

I asked him if he enjoyed sex. He said that he did, but at the same time, it turned out we had a bit of a problem in our relationship. As we sat there talking about our pretty miserable performance in the bedroom department, it came out that he felt a bit uncomfortable around me. It was the first time he had dated a girl from a London escorts service, and he was worried I was “rating” him. No, I don’t rate the men that I sleep with, it simply would not be right. It is important to recognise we have unique needs, but at the same time, if you are not enjoying your sex life, it is important to say. Am I still together with the same guy? I actually am. He has learned not to worry about sex and just enjoy our time together. It is okay to make sex into a fantasy experience and play time. After all like I told my boyfriend, it is called adult fun

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